My journey in becoming a Chief Stewardess probably has a different start than most- after my first season as a Deck/Stew/Cook, I actually pursued my Yachtmaster, which I completed with flying colours. I joined my next role as a Deckhand and had the time of my life! I was always competing with the boys and although I may seem strong and tough, I had to grow some thick skin pretty quickly to fit in with the banter. I was keen to work my way to the top but something was missing. Lets face it, the Deck life is fun and adventurous and no one ever dreams of cleaning toilets and making beds, but the kind of relationship and connection one forms with a guest or owner isn’t the same when working in the Deck department. As I am someone that thrives through creating interpersonal connections with people, I made the tough decision to switch back to Interior life (I still compete with the Deck boys though, make no mistake!).
I always knew I had a natural leadership ability that meant a Chief Stewardess role would be ideal for me. I pursued that role on every boat I worked on, but never seemed to catch a break. From not having enough “experience”, to not having enough “longevity” to just being in “the wrong place at the wrong time”, life kept throwing me curve balls that made the dream seem unattainable. Luckily the tenacity (or stubbornness) I developed as a Deckie remained, and I have been grateful to be working onboard the gorgeous MY Nero as Chief Stewardess for over a year now.
I think back over the past 9 years of my time through the industry and I am grateful to the people and experiences I have had, both good and bad, that make me the Chief Stewardess I am today. I learn something new about myself with every challenge I face and I strive to see the silver lining in those around me. The friends I’ve made along the way are one of my greatest achievements, but being nominated for this award is pretty cool too 😉
